The past couple of weeks have been really intense for me.
I have been called to go a lot deeper and wider with my message to help you live your dreams.
And to be completely honest, it’s freaked me out.
All of my fears of being more visible, of being judged, of being misunderstood came bubbling to the surface.
It was so intense that I was in bed for two days straight just sleeping and integrating the message I was called to share with you.
Now that I have a deeper understanding of the message that I am being called to be the Ambassador of, I want to share it with you.
First, because I am truly excited to share the awareness with you and second because I think it will fire you up and inspire you.
In all fairness, for some of you this post, may rattle your feathers and for others, it will probably make you exhale and go “ahhhh” finally someone is getting real.
So let me get to it…
It’s time for us to heal our perception of what living our dreams really look like.
That’s what I’m really here to help you do: to heal your past and to start truly LIVING.
I’m not here to sell you on any perceptions of a dream life that aren’t your own.
Rather, I’m here to DISRUPT the societal, familial and cultural conditioning that you have around the life that you are SUPPOSED TO BE LIVING “should” look like.
Living your dreams is a sacred journey that’s your birth right – what your soul truly longs for you to experience.
If we could let go of our ideas of what our financial life “should “look like, of what our family life “should” look like, or what our relationships “should” look like, what would we be choosing?
Where in your life are you really, honestly, truly CHOOSING FOR YOU and ONLY YOU without shame or judgment?
It’s time that we stop the epidemic of making choices based on what everyone else wants at the expense of our happiness.
It’s time that we stop building businesses that exhaust us and leave us unfulfilled because we are told to follow certain formulas.
Where are we making ourselves wrong for being single by choice, or childless by choice or in a particular relationship that doesn’t conform to society’s “rules” or being the rebels we truly be?
Where have we stopped following our truth and our inner knowing at the expense of our happiness and authenticity?
Where have we stopped embracing all of who we be: our weirdness, our giddiness, our intensity, our passions to FIT IN?
When did we give our power and happiness away at the expense of our soul?
When I talk about living your dreams, it’s about a much bigger and honest conversation about what makes each of us HAPPY from the depths of our soul.
What I am here to support you is in giving you the spiritual tools, practices, guidance and support so that you become masterful at LIVING and BEING in a way that’s fully and authentically YOU.
Living your dreams is all about having a quality of life and experiences that expand you, enrich your being and make you feel alive. And you can do that if you have $10 to your name or millions of dollars.
This is the pattern interrupt: living your dreams has NOTHING to do with how much money you have now or tomorrow.
It’s about how you choose to live your life at any given moment and if you are choosing what feels true for you and putting yourself at the top of your list.
And while we are on this magnificent, soul-filled journey, I want us to be talking about the ups and downs, the moments we are on our knees wanting to quit and begging for a way out but we keep going on; I want to talk about the truth of what it takes to really create a life that brings us joy and that makes our souls happy.
I’m not here to support you in buying into anything that isn’t YOUR TRUTH.
Rather, I’m here to help you dig deep and be a fearless ambassador for YOUR TRUTH whatever the f**k that is for you.
And the beauty is that only you and your soul know what that truly is for you.
We get caught up in a cycle of suffering when we work feverishly to “have it all” and we are left disillusioned, unhappy and feeling like there is something wrong with us when our lives don’t “measure up to an ideal” or even worse, we get “the life” and it doesn’t even feel like our own.
Here’s the truth and please take a moment to let this sink in: we are perfect and our soul already knows the best life for us to be living.
It’s time now for us to cut the B.S.; to stop dancing to someone else’s song and to write our own and to enjoy every moment of that journey.
The chase is pointless if you aren’t enjoying the ride. You are here on this planet to LIVE and you are a human being; not a human “chasing”.
A life worth living is one that feels rich, authentic and fully aligned with all of who you are at any given moment.
At times I felt concerned that my message of “living the dream” was unattainable or implied an unsustainable standard for you to live by.
It couldn’t be the farthest thing from the truth and if I ever conveyed that to you – I apologize. I too was getting clearer on the depths of my message and today I get to share that deeper clarity with you.
I don’t have everything figured out.
I have bad days just like you and days when I want to quit really badly because I am so confronted by my own sh*t!
I want to look like I have it all together at times so you can accept me but in reality I just want to be accepted for me.
And I know that you want to be accepted for all of you and to have the courage to be yourself in your life, your relationships and as you live out your purpose, right?
If you’re anything like me, you are a rebel of sorts.
You don’t like following the rules, being told what to do and you like to blaze your own trail often on a whim a prayer and a ton of passion right?
And along the way, your family, your partners and friends have probably told you that you are anything from mildly crazy to “a lost cause” I imagine.
Don’t worry – you’re not alone.
And you’re in the right place here!
I’m curious if there have been any places in your life where you have made yourself wrong for going “against the grain” and how you got passed that. Please share your comments below.
And if a safe space to have these deeper, real conversations about living out your dreams without judgment interests you, then I want to invite you to a brand new Facebook group I created called the Dream Life Community Facebook.
In there we will be getting real and having honest conversations and giving and receiving support to get clear on what our real dreams are and to start actually LIVING THEM TODAY. There is a ton of resources and more that I will be sharing in there.
If you’re ready to hop on this train and you know that a safe space like this is just what you’ve been asking for:
CLICK HERE TO JOIN THE DREAM LIFE COMMUNITY FACEBOOK GROUP
I look forward to seeing you in the Facebook group.
