The last 90 days have been wowza amazing! Seriously more than what I expected.
In the last month alone my life has undergone some serious uplevels.
First, I spent 2 amazing days in Phoenix clearing out old limiting beliefs with my business coach.
Last week I took an amazing 5 day training called Access Consciousness Foundations which I’ll share a bit more about below and guess what (I’m holding the cute puppy!)
I bought a new car! See the beauty here.
Plus, I have spent a lot of time in my own Akashic Records receiving amazing guidance on how to help you create the same level of magic in your life so you can create ANYTHING YOU DESIRE.
You heard me! Anything you desire!
During my 5 day Access Consciousness course we talked a lot about what’s getting in the way of us believing in ourselves, our magic and in infinite possibilities is that we’ve been stuck focusing on the wrongness of ourselves.
There were so many more juicy nuggets that I wanted to share some highlights from my training with you.
Here are 5 lessons that stood out from my Access Consciousness training:
1. Stop making yourself so bloody wrong
Let me ask you: What if every choice you ever made was perfect?
What if there is absolutely nothing wrong with you and rather, what if everything about you is just magical and perfect and you simply owning this truth is what’s been holding you back from everything you desire?
I swear that when the course facilitator looked me straight in the face and said:
“Priscilla., what if you aren’t as f**cked up as you think you are?
I had a major light bulb moment.
It’s really hard to come from a place of abundance and a full cup when everything I felt I was doing was on some level to cover up a “lie” that I had bought that there was something I needed to fix within myself.
Well, there isn’t anything wrong with me or any of us.
What if the key is to open up to this possibility and then to our own magic?
What if you get to focus on how brilliant you really are and that all of your perceived “mistakes” were perfect because they got you to be exactly where you are right now?
What is possible when you focus on the rightness of you instead of the wrongness?
2. Follow the lightness:
I won’t lie to you. The day I discovered this distinction my entire Universe shifted and I want the same for you.
A key concept of Access Consciousness is to follow what feels light and expansive for you.
The tool: Ask the question: Does this feel light (true for me) or does this feel heavy (lies, untruths)?
Truths for you will always feel light and expansive.
Lies will always feel heavy. These can sound like: “shoulds, musts, judgments and conclusions”.
The beauty of asking this question about light/heavy is that it empowers you to know that you have the awareness at any given moment to make choices that support what’s in your best interest.
It also allows you to become more present moment to moment so you live from a place of greater consciousness of what’s happening in your life and that means, living from a place of greater choice.
We always have choice, we sometimes just forget about it though!
This leads me to point #3 below!
3. Choose for you always
The beauty of life is that we ALWAYS have choice.
The problem is that at times we choose for others instead of for ourselves. True?
So when the opportunity arises, can you choose for you?
Are you willing to receive the judgments from others if need be so that you can put yourself first and choose for you?
I’ve always said that when we do what’s best for ourselves, we inevitably do what’s in the best interest of everyone else. They may not agree with that at first, but inevitably things always work out.
And the Universe will rearrange itself to what we need when we give it the signal that we are going to honour ourselves.
We are the magical creators of our lives at any given moment and being willing to honour this gift and responsibility of choice is where the art of living comes into play.
So when you’re deciding how to manage your schedule so it fits YOUR ideal client times, or when you don’t pick up a friend’s call because you’re tired and you need rest, that’s choosing for you.
Good news: it’s a winning proposition when you choose for you because you are the only one who answers to you.
And if there’s a part of you that’s screaming: you’re being a selfish person. Awesome.
Acknowledge her and tell her that you are being self-FULL and that you’re ready to return to sender all the programming that society, parents and others have told us about taking care of ourselves that really don’t serve our highest good.
If you want a lasting and sure fire way to have more ease and freedom in your life, build this muscle of choosing for you. The people that will support you will never leave you and those that do, are making room for even more aligned people to show up in your life.
The key is to trust that choosing for you will always be a win-win for you in the long-run!
4. The magic is in asking better questions
Access teaches that everything on the planet has a consciousness from a pencil to a business to your body.
So how cool is it that we can ask things what they want and how they would like to contribute to us?
What if you asked your body what it wants to eat today? Or how it would like to be treated today?
What if you asked your business what programs and offerings it wants to share with your clients?
What if you asked money how it wanted to come into your life and your business today?
What if the key to having more magic and possibility in your life was to be in the business of asking questions instead of stepping into limiting conclusions of what’s possible?
I wonder what’s possible!
5. Ask and be willing to receive what you desire – whatever format it shows up in!
Are you willing to receive everything you’ve ever desired?
I’ve been practicing asking for what I want and I’ve had a grand old time seeing what’s possible beyond my wildest imagination – and then receiving it all!
Can you believe that I didn’t even plan on buying my car this weekend but a friend told me of a special event that gave me everything I wanted and more?
In my car search I kept asking:
What is possible beyond my wildest imagination and what car wants to be the greatest contribution to my life?
Guess what? Magic showed up because I was open!
Here are a few questions to whet your appetite for creating more magic in your life:
What would it take for _____ to show up in my life?
What can I create today that would be a contribution to my life and my business?
Access also loves asking: What else is possible? and How does it get any better than that? It’s cool when we keep asking these questions even and especially when things don’t seem to be quite going your way.
The key to having what you really want as I’ve consistently shared with you is to ASK for what you want and then stay open and unattached to how it shows up.
Make no mistake, however, that action is involved to have what you want in addition to just asking questions but the action is often much more inspired and creates more ease than pushing and creating out of fear.
I’d love to hear how these tools resonated for you and how you can start practicing them and applying them in your life.
I wonder what else is deliciously possible now?
