Sweet one,
I’ve discovered that the Universe in its infinite wisdom is like a very efficient Good Will.
When it knows that we are ready for something bigger and better, it has a way of whispering, nudging and then yelling in our ears to make sure that we release anything and everything in the way of our personal growth.
When it decides that it’s time to shed, it will make sure we shed– for good.
But we don’t always listen to the immediate whisper, right?
We justify the poor behavior from a friend and decide to give he/she a second chance even though we’ve seen enough evidence to indicate it’s time to let go and to move on.
We hang on to stuff that’s outdated and keeps us holding onto the past.
We don’t let go of the memory of an ex because we aren’t certain that there will ever be a Mr. Right so holding onto “something” even if it’s a memory, is better than “having nothing” in our eyes.
We hang onto clients, colleagues and friendships that no longer serve us.
We hold onto a job or a career we’ve invested years in because we don’t know what to do next even though we are burnt out and ready for a big change.
We get comfortable in an unhealthy pattern of discomfort. We know we are no longer happy but we just plough along hoping and wishing in our heads that something will miraculously change someday.
Do any of these ring a bell?
But here’s the truth: Nothing changes until WE decide to change.
And when we’re ready for a change but we aren’t taking action in that direction, then the Universe will have a hand in nudging the release process along. J
Last week I had this happen to me. A friend and colleague sent me an email that crossed a professional line. I had known for a few months that it was time to let the relationship naturally be released but I didn’t. I kept holding on in the hopes that some patterns I’d seen in her behavior would get better.
Then, after the whispers, and the nudges, the wall of bricks came falling down.
It got my attention.
I was angry, hurt and disappointed.
The good news: I got the gift I needed to finally let go. After a few days, I took swift, definitive action to let go of the friendship. Thank you Universe.
I have seen this pattern lately with many of my clients, in my group sessions and in my own life.
We are being called to step into our greatness.
We are working towards beautiful dreams.
That means that whatever and whomever no longer fits within the vision of our dreams and our energetic vibration – will be released.
We get to choose whether it happens gently or with a thud!.
So I ask you today:
What or who do you know you’re ready to let go of, but haven’t yet done so?
It is a person, a thing, a habit, a pattern?
What’s been holding you back from doing so? Fear? Worry? Doubt? Being alone?
Acknowledge what is holding you back. It will help to set you free.
In one of the group channelings that I did for my group program: Soul Sessions, the group’s record keepers shared a beautiful reminder that’s timely for today:
To manifest your truest desires, you must create the physical and energetic space for them to come true via @sweetpathgirl. {tweet it}
Sometimes we don’t even realize, in our drive to create a happy and healthy life, that we are still holding onto the past.
Holding onto what no longer serves us, means we are “booked”, “full”, “no capacity” to invite what we are ready for now to come into our lives.
You can think of it like a hotel: occupied and to capacity. No room!
I invite you to make yourself a nice cup of warm tea or coffee and ponder on your biggest dreams today. Then, honestly look at what people, things, personal patterns or habits might be stopping you from achieving you dreams.
This week, what can you genuinely, compassionately and courageously let go of to make room for what you’re ready to call in to your life?
What do you need to say, do or simply release in order for things to re-align for your highest good?
Your desire awaits you. Sometimes, it’s as simple and as intentional as making room in your energetic and physical space to allow it in. Yes – you are that powerful and that deserving.
I’d love to hear about what you’ve let go of here on the blog.
To your sweet success,
