Are you waiting for your life to happen or are you choosing it fully?
Breathe and take it in.
Where are you waiting on people, circumstances, money, etc to change your life and where are you stepping into your truth and choosing what you truly want?
Ouch. I know.
And yet this question is so liberating.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, stagnant and overwhelmed, chances are that there is a part of you that is waiting for things to shift, for someone to do something different, for money to show up, for a client to find you and to say yes to working with you so your life circumstances changes .
The truth is that the only person that can truly create what you desire in your life is YOU.
So are you fully choosing what you desire to add to your life or have you been in a holding pattern?
Busy energy isn’t choosing.
Hoping that things get better isn’t choosing.
Waiting on the sidelines for someone to make a decision or to realize there is something wrong isn’t choosing.
They are examples that you are waiting for someone or something to change for you.
Examples of how waiting might show up in your life and business:
You are marketing yourself in a way that makes you money instead of allowing yourself to offer only what lights you up.
You are taking clients on for the money instead of when they are a true “hell yes” for you.
You are feeling stuck and stagnant in a relationship waiting for someone to show up for you and to give you what you want to feel good but little is changing.
You are afraid of looking at the Truth (whatever that is for you) so you keep on waiting.
And yet we know that the definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again expecting a different result.
So my darling friend, if you were truly honest with yourself, where are you still waiting for life to show up for you instead of you showing up for your life and truly choosing what’s a 100% YES for you?
The beautiful thing about Truth is how liberating it is.
The truth sets you free. It also requires a liquid dose of tequila for courage at times.
And yet when you tell yourself the Truth and you choose for you, a whole new world of ease, freedom and possibility begins to show up.
Choosing for you means that you are willing to take full responsibility for your life experience and you aren’t waiting for clients, your business, a lover or spouse, a friend or a chunk of money to save you.
You don’t need to be saved. And there’s nothing wrong or broken.
You just need to wake up to your personal power and to acknowledge how much you can create when you fully choose it, you decide and you draw that line in the sand.
Choosing for you means that what is in your life is a 100% yes.
It doesn’t mean you need to make a massive life overhaul if things aren’t all 100%.
Some things may take some time to shift and that’s fine.
However, there are choices that when made now, will free up energy and resources so that you return into full alignment with yourself (i.e. your Truth) and then you take the aligned action steps to get you where you want to go.
Baby steps.
Do you want to hear another secret?
When you start choosing for you, you actually manifest what you want faster via @sweetpathgirl.
This is because you are in alignment with your desire (I.e. your Truth). The blocks and mixed signals you were sending to the Universe are gone.
So where are you willing to stop waiting and to step into your power and to choose for you?
Choosing for you isn’t selfish by the way.
It’s the most loving act you can take for yourself, your loved ones and the planet because truth is love and love is truth.
I won’t lie to you and say that in choosing for you, there won’t be some possible breakdowns. There might be as you re-create dynamics, patterns and reframe beliefs and points of view so they fall into alignment with you.
But what’s meant for you will stick around and your relationships will be stronger for it especially your relationship to yourself and with your partner, friends, your business and with money.
And I promise you that choosing for you will = more ease in your life.
Here’s your play work if you choose to take this practice of choosing for you ON:
- Connect now to how you want to feel in a) your life; b) your relationships and c) your business. Write down those adjectives.
- See what aligned steps you can take, in choosing for you, to create greater alignment in your life so you experience more of those feelings. What needs to fall away, be rearranged or changed in order to create that feeling?
- What is the 100% truth of what you desire to create next?
- Then go take some action steps. It will likely involve some powerful and at times scary conversations and yet when you step into your courage, you also step into a deeper sense of freedom, meaning and joy.
And as a practice ask yourself daily:
I wonder what magic you can create next in your life when you start choosing for you?
Choosing for you is a fundamental and non-negotiable pillar of living a dream life.
It’s powerful. It works and it’s worth it. Tequila shots included when necessary.
So today I invite you to be bold.
Choose for you.
Be willing to tell the Truth.
And believe in yourself and in your dreams.
I’d love to hear what shows up for you.
